Booked a tour to the Border Ceremony, to be followed by the Golden Temple at night. I specifically wanted a woman, to be a role model for my daughters, since a woman working in this field in India would have to overcome a fair number of obstacles. That did not work. The day before the tour, she writes to say that her parents don't let her stay out at night. I suppose that is possible. But she found us a superb alternative: Balwinder Singh. This guy was amazing, taking us into nooks and crannies of the Golden Temple where there were no other tourists. Extensive knowledge, very personable.